Sex and work just don’t mix well – and when office romances turn sour, careers and reputations have a tendency to unravel.
There’s been a lot to blog about lately on this topic – San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsome (The Mayor Newsome Affair – Legal and Sexual Harassment Training Implications) and of course soon-to-be former President of the World Bank, Paul Wolfowitz (Men and Women View Sexual Harassment Differently: The Power Divide).
Newsome headed off to rehab and has stayed mostly under the radar. Wolfowitz held out a long time there, but finally caved and resigned. Awarding his girlfriend a hefty pay increase was just too much to overcome, and like many other sex-in-the-workplace scandals, his transgression was couched as a violation of the Code of Conduct. (See NYTimes.com: Wolfowitz Resigns, Ending Long Fight At World Bank).
These high profile office romances are no longer just about the sexual harassment policy (or any accompanying sexual harassment training programs.) They’re about ethics.
Case In Point: David Colby, Former WellPoint CFO
Ethics and traditional sexual harassment have collided head-on – and David Colby, former CFO of WellPoint, served up a shining example this week. I mean this one is just packed to the rafters with dirt.
On one side there are movie deals, elaborate cover-up stories, and lovers strewn about the country. On the other side is a well-respected company dealing with investor scrutiny and questions about integrity and ethics. And in the middle of it all is one man, who appears to have some serious issues.
The Wall Street Journal describes Colby as having a “complicated personal life.” Boy – that’s an understatement. He appears to have been leading a double life, with “secret” families in at least two different locations, accessorizing the arrangement with plenty of other girlfriends stationed around the country. And it’s reported that one of Colby’s romances involved a WellPoint employee.
Colby’s Personal Life Catches Up With Him
Until recently, Colby’s coworkers didn’t question his complicated personal life – that is, until it started to impact WellPoint’s reputation. Colby was asked to resign on May 30, despite years of extremely strong performance. I’m not sure what got the ball rolling – but it may have been a lawsuit filed against Colby by a scorned lover, and the subpoena she served on WellPoint for records. (See Bloomberg.com article).
While WellPoint has been tight lipped about the actual reason they let Colby go, the company did say that an investigation revealed a violation of WellPoint’s Code of Conduct. (See CNNmoney.com article). WellPoint's employment agreement with Colby also provides that his employment can be terminated if he engages in "conduct which tends to bring us into substantial public disgrace or disrepute."
Polygamy, shameless office romance, and all around deception? Yup – I’d say that qualifies.
Sexual Harassment and Misconduct Viewed As An Ethical Lapse and Code Violation
More and more employers are treating sexual misconduct and sexual harassment as a violation of their Code of Conduct, and not just as a violation of their harassment policy. Employers have connected the dots – sexual harassment is a more than just an HR issue. High-level resignations involving sexual misconduct are frequently couched in terms of Code violations, loss of confidence in leadership ability, and demonstrated poor judgment. Stellar performers can’t just hide behind their qualifications to save their jobs.
Ethics & Sexual Harassment Training Are No Longer Luxuries – They’re Musts
Employers today are expected to periodically train all employees on ethics and legal compliance. (For the legal basics, check out: Legal Drivers for Mandatory Harassment, Discrimination, and Ethics Training). And most Codes now include a prohibited harassment policy. As a result, harassment training has become a standard component of ethics and code of conduct and training.
And while it’s vital to address harassment issues as part of ethics and code training, sexual harassment training should be taken a step further.
Why? Well first, it’s about probability. Just peruse the federal and state statistics on discrimination claims. Harassment is so pervasive, it’s likely to be the most common form of Code violation that your employees engage in. Second, harassment is a complex topic with a lot of gray areas. Men and women tend to view harassment differently, and your employees are human – attraction and desire can lead to some very inappropriate workplace conduct. You need some robust, interactive education on the topic.
If you want to protect your organization, insist on dual coverage for this critical topic. Your code training should address harassment and discrimination, but you shouldn’t stop there. Harassment training should also be offered to all employees as a stand-alone program. This approach isn’t just a good idea – it’s actually required in multiple states. (See ELT’s 50-state sexual harassment training survey.)
Oh – and don’t forget to train your execs, and the Board. These guys (and gals) are some of the absolute worst transgressors. Their ethical missteps also tend to land you on the front page of the newspaper.